Do Tulsa homebuyers know what they’re looking for in a home? I often like to compare the list of the Buyer’s search criteria from the beginning of our home-shopping process to the house that they finally choose. Often, many items they felt strongly about when they began their search are nowhere to be found in the home that they ultimately select. 
Are Home Buyers that wishy-washy?
Not at all. Home buying is a very personal and emotional decision, and the bottom line is that a home buyer will select a home that “hits” them emotionally. They will choose the home that speaks to them and that they can see themselves living in.
Some search criteria will remain constant. Sometimes “location” is the most important criteria. I am currently working with one Buyer that wants a certain geographic area – she grew up in midtown Tulsa and is not buying south of 41st for any reason. Another Tulsa homebuyer is serious about the school district and will not deviate. But a third Buyer only wants a 3 bedroom, 2 bath that’s updated – geographic area is not a concern and this couple just wants something that is low-maintenance and move-in ready, whether it’s in Tulsa, Broken Arrow or Glenpool.
We may start out wanting a large yard and inside utility. After looking at twenty homes, my Buyer falls in love with a home with a small yard and the washer/dryer are located in the garage. What happened? The Buyer fell in love with the mahogany cabinetry that looked just like her grandmother’s home. She loved the flow of the home and the built-in cabinets. Oh, and she loved the deck that she was never looking for in the first place.
To homebuyers, it’s the small stuff that counts.
Did I mention that we had looked at twenty homes? That’s not a large number of homes to look at before making a selection, by the way. I ask my homebuyers not to choose more than six or eight homes to look at in one afternoon or evening, because any more than that is too much information to process.
And after looking at seven homes and driving to the last home – alas, we did not go inside. Why? The paint on the exterior was dingy and the landscaping was growing wild. My Buyer literally said, “Oh, let’s skip this one – it looks yucky, and I’m tired.” Had the Seller spent a small amount of money improving the curb appeal of his home, my Buyer might have walked through the door and fell in love with the many jewels inside.
How do Sellers attract Buyers?
Would you go on a first-date without immaculate clothing, make up (or shave) and stylish hair? Of course you wouldn’t, because you want to make a good impression – a good FIRST impression. So, why would you put your home on the market, expecting to interest Buyers if your HOME did not make a good first impression? Spend a little time, money and sweat on the exterior, because you can’t sell your home if we can’t get our Buyer into your home!
What we understand about the home buyer’s selection process to help us prepare Sellers . . .
Get your home in top-notch condition BEFORE you put it on the market. New carpet to be installed with acceptable offer? Phooey. I recently worked with some Buyers that just wanted a home that was move-in ready. We found a darling home with a layout they loved, neighborhood they loved and it met all the requirements of their search. And the carpet was stained beyond belief. I asked my Buyers to please shop for carpet and suggested that we write in the contract that carpet of the Buyer’s choosing would be installed prior to closing at a cost not to exceed $____. My Buyers got a quote and that amount was higher than the quote that the Seller already had to put in a decent mid-grade frieze carpet. Had the Seller put that carpet in BEFORE putting their home on the market, it would never have been an issue, but my Buyers did NOT select this home because the emotional attachment was lost.
Lessons learned for Homebuyers?
Look beyond what you can change and focus on what you can not change. Remember your priorities. It’s okay to re-evaluate as you go, but try to achieve your larger goals.
Lessons learned for Home Sellers?
Remove as many possible objections Buyers may have before your Realtor puts that sign in the yard and try to make a great first impression!
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Lori, I have astager we use for all listings. Most of what we do seems to be in eliminating clutter. I am able to soft sell it by telling them that the process is all about the buyers, and making the house look like something they would want to buy. Thanks for all the extra tips.
Soft sell is right, Joe . . . it's sometimes hard not to hurt your Seller's feelings!
Lori, your comment near the end about the Buyers having lost their emotional attachment says it all. The majority of Buyers, especially those first-timers, want to fall in love, don't they? The Sellers who understand how to woo the Buyers are smart cookies.
Kathryn - absolutely. And despite the deadline of closing on November 30th to qualify for the stimulus package, I can't seem to get those Buyers excited again!